A Trifle for Tuesday - 9th Day of Christmas 2024

 

From Jungfrau (4100m) looking down to Lauterbrunnen, Switzerland. 2007

(Photo krb)

Setting out on another year brings reflection, especially so for those of us who are moving into the later stages of life. Many of us are experiencing transitions which come with aging. For some it means facing increasing disability and working out how to live as full a life as possible within the new restrictions we face. For some it is the discovery that decision-making is becoming more difficult without assistance and discovering the level of independence that can be maintained and how and where to obtain just the right level of assistance. For others it is the discovery that independent living, often in the familiar surrounds of the family home, is no longer viable.  It is a complex task discovering what level of supported accommodation is required and how to access it. The ongoing question, in this regard, is when is the right time to access supported accommodation such that our greatest wellbeing is maintained? For all of us there is the day-to-day question about how to maintain a positive attitude to the world amidst the enormous change that we see around us. Let me say that if you are facing any or all of these complex issues you are not alone. It is our common experience as we age.

It is our hope that as we age there is a strong community upon which we can rely for support, beyond our immediate and extended family.   We discover, however, that the more complex society becomes the more difficult it is to maintain community support and isolation becomes widespread as we age. I applaud those countries which have developed Government departments and ministries to deal specifically with and devise programs to combat isolation and loneliness. 

The years I spent in aged care chaplaincy taught me much about life. I certainly confronted my own mortality as do all those who work in this increasingly important sector.  I discovered that the heavy lines that we draw between denominations fade to nothing as we age. I also discovered that as we age, we don't leave Church, Church leaves us. This is not surprising for lots of reasons, the busy life the institutional church, the demise of broad pastoral care programs. All this means that it is so easy to lose track of individuals.  Some church communities are trying to overcome these problems with innovative programs, but resources are scarce. 

Again, we are called to walk the journey with our people in all of their circumstances whoever they are offering nothing but peace and unconditional love.

Every blessing as you continue on your journey. May God bless you and be your companion on the way. Please get in touch with me any time to say g'day.

Peace, justice and blessings to all.